All things love, sex, and spirituality with a little fiction on the side.

Melissa Portan

LMSW, M.Ed.

Licensed sexologist practicing in NYC.

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  • Mini Post 10: Signs of a Soul Mate Relationship

    How do you know you’re with your soul mate? We can have multiple relationships simultaneously and they can all be soul mates. A soul mate can be a friend, a lover, or family. Here is a quick list of signs that you are in a soul mate relationship: 1. It is easy. The relationship is…

  • Love, Hope, Patience, and the Focus of a Heart

    Often, when searching for love, love is all the heart focuses on. Love is all the heart desires, wishes for, demands, hurts for, and beats for. Something bizarre happens when in love; everything else becomes irrelevant, less important, and the focus of the heart turns to that special person. Regardless of what type of relationship it is…

  • What does it feel like when you’re with your soul-mate?

    It’s a funny thing, finding a soul-mate. There are many soul-mates, different kinds/types of soul-mates, and we all have soul-mates. But there is always that one special soul-mate, that one person that you can spend the rest of your life with. The romantic soul-mate is the one relationship that can last a lifetime. Out of…

  • Hot Post: The Female Breast Orgasm

     The female breasts are the two points on a woman’s body where her sexuality mingles with her heart. The breasts are where a woman’s partner finds arousal, causes arousal, a place that is admired, caressed, and loved. Regardless of the size of a woman’s breasts, the size and shape of the areolae, breasts are intimately…

  • Twin Souls: Difficulties

    The twin soul relationship. The twin soul relationship is often seen as being the perfect relationship or the ideal relationship. The reality of what a twin soul relationship is, is often misunderstood and/or misrepresented. It is true that the twin soul relationship is the ideal relationship, but it is the ideal relationship for those who are…

  • Las almas gemelas y las almas afines y la confusión

    El amor es algo que todos buscamos. Sentir que nos quieren completamente sin importar lo que sea es lo que todos queremos. Sentirnos aceptados y entendidos por otra persona que nos ama es el amor que buscamos. El alma gemela es esa persona que da el amor incondicionalmente. Muchos buscan su alma gemela y algunos sin saber…

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