All things love, sex, and spirituality with a little fiction on the side.

Melissa Portan

LMSW, M.Ed.

Licensed sexologist practicing in NYC.

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  • What is magic and how does it work?

    This is not the kind of magic where you pull a rabbit out of a hat. This is what some call magick, why some call themselves witches, wizard’s, mages, shamans, and so on. And no, we are not about to talk about a fantasy novel. Magic, in the sense of transformation, is what we’re talking…

  • El orgasmo de la mujer

     El orgasmo de la mujer es el punto mas alto de su sensualidad y su feminidad. Los secretos del orgasmo de la mujer han captivado y evadido la comprensión del hombre y hasta de la mujer. Científicamente, un orgasmo es definido como espasmos musculares de la vagina y de otros músculos que resultan en la liberación…

  • How to Find Your Soul Mate

    Chances are you already have a soul mate in your life. There are different types of soul mates (read about the different types here) and perhaps it is not the relationship you are looking for. Here are a couple of things you can do to attract the soul mate you desire: 1. Clarify what kind of soul mate and…

  • Warning! Hot Guide Post: How to Sexually Please a Woman

    A woman is a beautiful and complex being. Physically speaking there are many ways to please her and she is capable of different orgasms (refer to The Female Orgasm). Before you begin trying to please a woman I recommend figuring out why you want to please her (read this first). Bring clarity to yourself and it will…

  • Understanding the Question: How do you please a woman?

    Many want to know how to please a woman. Pleasing a woman can mean many things. There is sexual pleasure which is physical and there is emotional/mental pleasure which is intangible. There isn’t one single answer to this question. Whether it is a long-term partner or a new partner or even a casual encounter, pleasing…

  • Tarot: One of My Horrible Experiences and Its Lessons

    Namaste, friends. I begin by telling you all this story that happened just yesterday. I am fascinated by the tarot and do readings for friends and referrals that they bring me. I don’t do it on a regular basis, just when someone comes along with questions. I usually start the reading by lighting a candle…

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