All things love, sex, and spirituality with a little fiction on the side.

Melissa Portan

LMSW, M.Ed.

Licensed sexologist practicing in NYC.

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  • Premature Ejaculation: What to NOT do or say during Sex

    So it happened and suddenly things are awkward and embarrassing. That is the first thing that should not be done. Do not be embarrassed. Premature ejaculation happens and it is a natural thing, not every day will your sexual energy be high and some days you will be too tired. But embarrassment and all the…

  • Soul Mate and Twin Soul Relationship Misunderstandings

    People often search for their soul mate, for the one, for the other person that they will spend the rest of their life with. Some believe that soul mates are intricately weaved into our destinies, other dismiss the whole idea as wishful thinking. I believe that there is such a thing as destiny but that…

  • What can the Tarot Reveal?

    The tarot is a very versatile tool, but what can we see when do readings or what can we expect to be told when receiving a reading? I went around the internet looking at tarot websites that connect tarot readers with customers and what I found was very disappointing and frustrating. First of all, there…

  • Love and Sex

    Sex and love are often meshed together and at other times are at odds with each other. If there is confusion about whether sex and love are related then these things need to be defined, need to be brought down to their basic levels, in order to be understood. In relationships there is often confusion about…

  • What Love Does to a Spiritual Pracitce

    Love is warm and it illuminates the darkest parts of the heart. When there is love, challenges and fears fade away, troubles melt away, and there is comfort, wholeness, light, and warmth. Love is the Sun of the Soul. When it comes to spiritual practices and all the different paths that exist, love is the one…

  • The Body: Yoga for the Feet

    Connect with your feet and align your foundations with this little video.

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