All things love, sex, and spirituality with a little fiction on the side.

Melissa Portan

LMSW, M.Ed.

Licensed sexologist practicing in NYC.


  • What is sex magic?

    Sex magic, sometimes spelled sex magick, is the control of the sexual energy to achieve something. So what this means is that someone who is practicing sex magic focuses his or her intentions at the point of orgasm and sends those intentions into action, both in the astral plane and within his or her own…

  • Mini Guide Post 8: Relaxing and Calming Your Energy

    When we want to raise our energy we move our energy from the bottom up. We call the energy within us from the feet up the legs, to the stomach and heart, to up and out of the head. So, when we want to do the opposite and not be jumping and bursting with energy,…

  • The Body: The Feet

    The feet are the foundation of the human body. The feet are the roots to the base of the body that ground you to the earth. At the simplest level, your feet are a vital part of your body that allow you to walk. The parts of the foot include the toes, the heel, and the…

  • La eyaculación precoz: lo basico

    La eyaculación precoz es un problema que muchos hombres enfrentan, a veces algo ocasional y para otros consistentemente una situación que empeora. Lo bueno es que este problema tiene una solución, mas bien, tiene varias soluciones. Pero primero hay que entender qué es la eyaculación precoz. La eyaculación precoz es referida coloquialmente o comúnmente como cuando un hombre…

  • Tantric Meditation: The Circle of Light

            Part two of the video. The following technique is more advanced. Refer to Increasing Your Sexual Energy for an introduction and discussion on raising your kundalini. And here is an alternative technique for those that are single or prefer to practice alone before practicing with a partner.      

  • Warning! Hot Post: The Flaming Lotus

    The Flaming Lotus exercise will help ignite the sexual energy that you already posses but may have become dormant and hidden beneath various thoughts or feelings. Practice and adjust this exercise to fulfill your needs. This will be beneficial if you are struggling not only with sexual and sexuality issues but also if you are…

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