All things love, sex, and spirituality with a little fiction on the side.

Melissa Portan

LMSW, M.Ed.

Licensed sexologist practicing in NYC.

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  • Increasing Your Sexual Energy

    Sometimes the desire to have sex and to make love with and to your partner is just not there either because there is too much going on or because of exhaustion or even because there is no passion. Because there is no passion it does not mean that there is not love which could be very…

  • How to Connect with your Twin Soul through Sex

    There are many ways to connect with your twin soul. The strongest and easiest way to connect with him or her, regardless of whether you’ve met or are separated, is through sex. Why? Because when we are aroused our energy rises with our arousal. Since twin souls are each other’s energetic match and counterpoint, there…

  • La homosexualidad y la espiritualidad

    En la espiritualidad de los griegos antiguos y de los hindúes la homosexualidad era común y bien aceptada. No había ningún odio contra los hombres que amaban otros hombres ni contra las mujeres que preferían mujeres. No eran negados sus derechos ni condenados al infierno. Es un gran sufrimiento y un gran dolor que la sociedad moderna…

  • Spirituality in the forest, mountains, or city?

    Where do you practice your form of spirituality? Do you have to go to the mountains in order to feel that inner connection? Do you have to be near the ocean to experience the motions of your soul just as the waves rise and fall? Or do you live in a city that doesn’t shut…

  • The Tarot and Its Differnet Functions

     The mind is always active and it is always looking forward. We are always thinking about what we are going to do in the following minutes, days, or years. This constant preoccupation of what will come not only keeps us from being present but also wastes our energy. The tarot is a popular method of…

  • El Cuerpo: Introducción

     Namaste. La conexión entre el cuerpo y el alma es algo difícil de percibir y muchas veces el alma es considerada como externa y lejana. Dios es algo que existe fuera y arriba de uno. Uno mira para arriba, hacia el cielo, y dice que allá esta todo lo que es divino (sean dioses o diosas o maestros ascendidos y…

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